The Journal

Perhaps This Is an Unpopular Opinion, But Detailed Planning Is Overrated Ok, I know you Type A people pleasers are shaking your head at me. But hear me out, please. We’ve been taught to worship at the altar of being organized. Having all our ducks in a row. Knowing all the pros and cons. It’s […]

You Can’t Manifest Around Misalignment We love to think a carefully curated vision board and a sprinkle of “good vibes” will magically manifest the life we’re dreaming of. But here’s the hard truth: no amount of glittery affirmations will land if your internal wiring is in chaos. Manifestation isn’t about plastering over your fears with […]

Let’s talk about the block that doesn’t show up on your to-do list—but keeps wrecking your momentum. Most people think what’s holding them back is external.Not enough time.Not enough money.Not the right strategy, or skillset, or network. But if you’ve been spinning your wheels, even when you do have the knowledge, the plan, or the […]

What it means to be an amplifier—and why the world needs more of us. There’s this thing I do. Maybe you do it too. I feel someone’s energy, hear their message, catch a glimpse of their power—and suddenly I’m lit up. Like, full-body “yes.” Like electricity shooting through my chest. And without even thinking, I […]

The other day I had to get my blood drawn. This is typically a very unfun task that I’ve had to do more than I’d like during perimenopause. Yet, somehow, it turned into a shining moment that reminded me just how powerful it is to be seen. And how much we all crave reminders that […]

When I first started my business, my focus was squarely on bravery. Not the loud, performative kind. And not fearlessness either because fearlessness is a myth sold to us by people who either want our money or our silence. Fearlessness is for sociopaths and toddlers. The rest of us? We feel fear for a reason. […]

Life often throws us into situations beyond our control. A place where, no matter how much we want to fix things, the reality remains unchanged. For many of us, especially parents, these moments are even more complex. We love fiercely, invest deeply, and sometimes feel helpless when circumstances spiral beyond our influence. As a divorced […]

A daydream by any other name … Your Daydreams Are Not Wasted Time: They’re Directions  There’s a version of you that shows up when nobody’s asking for your attention. It appears while you’re washing dishes, zoning out mid-meeting, or staring at the ceiling at night. That version of you slips into a vivid scene—a different […]

Let’s talk about mornings. Not the perfectly curated Instagram kind with the steaming matcha, sunrise yoga, and a “gratitude” playlist humming in the background. I’m talking about the real deal: the moment your alarm goes off and you meet yourself, before the to-do list, before the inbox, before the kids need anything or the world […]

I’ve been talking about breaking the rules since I was a kid. Okay, let’s be real—I’ve been actively breaking them since I was a kid. Most rules are bullshit. They were created by and for someone who isn’t you. Sure, guidelines can be helpful, but rigid rules? They kill creativity, crush flexibility, and drain the […]