It's time to come home to yourself!

There was a time in my life when I readily accepted a limited and inauthentic existence, where my sense of belonging to myself was overshadowed by the priorities and expectations of others. While outwardly it seemed as if I was “living the dream” ( (successful business, huge beautiful house, gorgeous family) but inside I felt miniature, unfulfilled, and exhausted from twisting the elements of my world around to accommodate other people’s wishes and avoid my fears. I was following the rules society had placed on me, and dying inside in the process.

When I could no longer accept the unacceptable I decided to become a proverbial Phoenix and burn it all to the ground. It was time to come home to myself, belong to myself and break the fucking rules!

I came out (yep – of the closet), left my long-term marriage, and built a new business based on revolutionizing the way we all show up for ourselves and our dreams. I finally started feeling as though I was exemplifying the kind of honesty and self-driven success that I want for each of my daughters, the kind of balance and bravery that honors my work goals and personal goals equally.

In essence, I discovered the way to unravel.

Let me tell you – it was insanely hard. (Honestly, some days it still is!) But building a life that you fucking love is absolutely possible and unequivocally worth it.

Gone are the days of contorting myself like a human pretzel, bending over backward to accommodate the whims of everyone around me, letting my business be my boss or sacrificing myself to meet the expectations thrust upon me by others.