After a lifetime of living by other people’s expectations and playing by society’s rules, I hit a breaking point and said, “f*ck it.” I decided to stop living on autopilot and step into my own power. It wasn’t easy—learning to trust myself and break free from the constraints I had accepted for so long—but once I did, everything changed. I realized that the key to living a truly fulfilling life isn’t just about achieving joy as some far-off goal—it’s about making joy your default. When joy becomes the foundation of your life, everything shifts. You feel more aligned, your actions are more intentional, and the impact you make on the world becomes more positive and powerful than ever before.
Now, I help people like you break free from the bullshit rules that keep you small, stuck, and uninspired. I guide you to prioritize joy—not as a reward, but as a starting point. By leading from joy, you unlock the potential for a life that’s not only successful but deeply fulfilling and aligned with your true self. And here’s where it gets good: working with me is where science meets woo. For years, people thought spirituality was all about faith and surrendering power. But now, science is backing up what we’ve always known. Things like vibrational energy, manifestation, and the power of time are no longer just ideas—they’re proven truths.
Through my coaching platform, The BRAVE Method™, combined with tools like Human Design, NLP, Positive Psychology, and more, I’ve helped hundreds of clients break through their self-doubt, come home to themselves, and step into their unapologetically badass, magical selves. When you embrace joy as your foundation and use science and spirituality together, you create a life that feels amazing and produces real, tangible results. The world is waiting for you to show up as your most authentic self. The question is, are you ready?
There was a time in my life when I readily accepted a limited and inauthentic existence, where my sense of belonging to myself was overshadowed by the priorities and expectations of others. While outwardly it seemed as if I was “living the dream” ( (successful business, huge beautiful house, gorgeous family) but inside I felt miniature, unfulfilled, and exhausted from twisting the elements of my world around to accommodate other people’s wishes and avoid my fears. I was following the rules society had placed on me, and dying inside in the process.
When I could no longer accept the unacceptable I decided to become a proverbial Phoenix and burn it all to the ground. It was time to come home to myself, belong to myself and break the fucking rules!
I came out (yep – of the closet), left my long-term marriage, and built a new business based on revolutionizing the way we all show up for ourselves and our dreams. I finally started feeling as though I was exemplifying the kind of honesty and self-driven success that I want for each of my daughters, the kind of balance and bravery that honors my work goals and personal goals equally.
In essence, I discovered the way to unravel.
Let me tell you – it was insanely hard. (Honestly, some days it still is!) But building a life that you fucking love is absolutely possible and unequivocally worth it.
Gone are the days of contorting myself like a human pretzel, bending over backward to accommodate the whims of everyone around me, letting my business be my boss or sacrificing myself to meet the expectations thrust upon me by others.
You've belonged to your parents, your schools, your social groups, sports teams, workplaces, partners, kids … But what happens if you choose to belong to yourself first? To build from a foundation of “I'm good enough, strong enough, and worthy enough just as I am” rather than seeking belonging from the outside in?
Come home to yourself and watch the world expand in tandem with your authenticity.
You deserve to have your dreams realized.
You deserve a joy-filled life.
You deserve success on your own terms.
Let's break the rules together!
Belong to yourself first!
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LETS CHAT!
"She possesses the ability to recognize and tap into your potential, challenging you in a positive manner. With her expertise and experience, Heather facilitates transformative sessions that guide you towards your truth. If you seek improved self-esteem and a supportive ally to accelerate goal achievement, Heather is the ideal choice."
SARAH G.
SHE/HER
"Heather Vickery has this incredible talent to really listen to what you are trying to say and helps your heart and mind make deep connections. She challenges you in such a way to dig deep and make the amazing changes in your life and your business to pursue it with BOLD passion."
MINA L.
SHE/HER
"She knows knows when to push and when not to, and also feels genuine joy when people succeed or overcome obstacles. She is approachable, and fun to work with (but knows exactly how and when to buckle down)."
LIZ H.
SHE/HER
"She knows what they need and can help them figure out what they want even if they don't know and point them in the right direction. She gives a push when it is needed and knows when someone needs more."
JEANETTE G.
SHE/HER
EXECUTIVE PRODUCER + HOST, EXCUSE MY ADHD PODCAST
"She gets straight to the heart of the matter while still being very gentle and loving. So dope to watch and experience."
MALINDA R.
SHE/HER
"She left me wanting more and feeling deep in community!"
MAUREEN B.
SHE/HER
STEF G.
XE/XIM
"I was confused about money and my business. Heather asked really powerful questions to help me gain more clarity on what I wanted and needed. She also helped me access the states of content and regulated whenever I want it. If you’re looking for a non-traditional coach who breaks the rules and will hold you to the highest version of you, she’s your person."
JENN
SHE/HER
"Before working with Heather I had this strong belief that my coaching business will never be able to support me financially. After working with Heather to release this belief through subconscious reprogramming, I now feel with 100% certainty that I KNOW that it is inevitable that my coaching business will definitely support me financially. Heather allowed me to feel safe and supported throughout the entire process. Not only that, but she also helped me to release a pattern of behavior that was keeping me in hustle mode and not enjoying my life outside of my work. The process felt easy and light. She is a truly gifted coach and I highly recommend working with Heather if you, too, desire to be free of limiting beliefs and behaviors and unleash your fullest potential."
NATALIE
SHE/HER
“I've had the opportunity to work with Heather several times and each time has been such a gift. Not only is Heather a master of Human Design, she has the ability to make you feel seen. With her energy, insight and experience she was able to hold a wonderfully supportive space for me. This enabled me to more effectively work through professional and personal challenges that were preventing me from achieving my goals. With her help and guidance I was able to remove those subconscious roadblocks and set myself on a clearer path to success! I highly recommend working with Heather!”
TINA
SHE/HER
"I recently had the pleasure of working with Heather to address some long-held emotional challenges. We utilized TIME Techniques, a modality that facilitated a significant shift in my emotional state. Heather's ability to create a supportive and compassionate environment fostered a sense of trust and allowed me to release pent-up anger and sadness that I had carried for decades. I particularly appreciated her insightful guidance and incorporation of the Loving Kindness prayer, a technique I find particularly resonant. I am confident that the progress made during our session will have a lasting impact, and I would highly recommend Heather's expertise to anyone seeking effective emotional release tools."
MELISSA B.
SHE/HER