When you know better, do better

With Featured Guest

Becky Mollenkamp

Should • Rebirth • Feminist

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When you know better, do better

With Featured Guest

Becky Mollenkamp

Should • Rebirth • Feminist

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Top Takeaways From This Episode

  • Enough is wonderful
  • You don’t know it all and you never will
  • Coaching work requires being real about generational lessons
  • Awareness around messaging and conditioning brings freedom
  • Shame and blame are the sharpest, most dangerous tools
  • Consider it calling in and not calling out
  • Have compassion for the icky parts. No judgment. Honor how you feel.
  • When you get it wrong, love yourself for that.
  • Embrace “and” rather than “or”
  • The more you do the work, the faster you’re able to move through the challenges
  • Celebration by speaking victories out loud


True allyship and activism means living your values unapologetically and out loud. It means standing up to the haters and the trolls, being willing to be called in (and called out) when you make your own mistakes along the way, and centering the voices of those more marginalized than you. 

Becky Mollenkamp isn’t afraid to put her values first in her business. Becky shares her journey towards having a socially conscious and responsible business and the struggles we, as women, face in trying to unwire our patriarchal training. The self-shame is real folks.

Getting to know Becky Mollenkamp

Becky is a badass mentor and coach for women, femmes, and thems. She helps folks unlearn their patriarchal conditioning and redefine success on their own terms. 

Connect with Becky on Instagram. Twitter, TikTok or via her website, and check out her podcast, The Gutsy Boss.

Giving is Good

Transgender Law Center

The largest national trans-led organization advocating self-determination for all people.

Grounded in legal expertise and committed to racial justice, they employ a variety of community-driven strategies to keep transgender and gender-nonconforming people alive, thriving, and fighting for liberation.

"The more you do the work, the faster you're able to move through the challenges."

- Becky Mollenkamp

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Meet your Host, Heather Vickery

Heather Vickery is an award-winning business owner and global leader with over 20 years as an entrepreneur. She leverages her entrepreneurial skills and expertise to coach individuals towards greater personal and professional fulfillment by helping them leverage their fear into intentional bravery. Heather says “When we choose bravely, on purpose, we choose bigger, have bigger successes and it’s contagious” A celebrated public speaker, Heather inspires audiences and empowers attendees with the tools they need to live bold and successful lives through creating balance, time management, mindfulness, as well as countless systems, strategies, and boundaries. She’s the author of Gratitude Journal: Shift Your Focus and Grow Grateful: A Gratitude Journal for Kids and Families. Heather is also the host and executive producer of The Brave Files Podcast.

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