Patricia (Trish) King, America's first Transgender Infantryman. Transgender Military Ban. The Brave Files Podcast. Creating Change.

America’s First Transgender Infantryman

With Featured Guest

Trish King


Top Takeaways From This Episode

  • There’s value in paying attention to the difference you’re making. It’s powerful to make a change for those who cannot help themselves.
  • Be realistic about your goals. This is a marathon, not a sprint!
  • Stay loud and brave. Stay active and keep your eyes open. Be part of the solution.

Patricia (Trish) King redefines what it means to be a brave American. Trish spent her 20-year career in the U.S Army as an Infantryman and then she came out as transgender. This made her America's first transgender infantryman. Her story is one of overcoming, persistence, and dedication. Although she’s now retired, Trish continues to fight for the rights of transgender service people and those marginalized all across the country. She’s truly an inspiration to us all as she continues to fight for the rights of transgender service members and all people marginalized across the United States.

Finding Her Place

As a young person, Trish decided to join the U.S. Military as a way to challenge herself and push away discomfort in her mind and body. She decided to enlist in the military for the endless opportunities available and knew she’d be able to explore the world, and herself, to figure out her life’s direction. Much to her surprise, this turned into a 20-year career in the military (from which she just recently retired!).

Choosing Bravely

After 15 long and dedicated years in the military, Trish finally decided she could no longer live life as she had been. She made the courageous decision to come out to her family as transgender.

Now, as the first transgender infantryman, she utilized all of the healthcare opportunities available to aid in her transition. It was a bold move because, up until this point, open transgender service members were not welcomed into the military. In turn, Trish faced the possibility of discharge simply for being true to herself. Fortunately, the military changed its stance right around the same time that she came out in anticipation of the Department of Defense’s new policy allowing open transgender service.

Not only was Trish America’s first transgender infantryman, but she was also the first enlisted woman in the infantry at all. That's a lot of firsts! Prior to 2016, women were not allowed into combat-specific jobs. This was, without a doubt, a brave new territory  – – and it still is!

Trish King is America’s first transgender infantryman. After a 20 year military career, she now fiercely advocates for the rights of LGBTQ service members and all marginalized communities across our country. The Brave Files.

We Didn't See This Coming

Suddenly in 2017, the safety of our transgender service members was at risk when Donald Trump began to openly object to allowing transgender service members to serve. Despite evidence and research to prove otherwise, the reasons sited were medical care costs, overall morale, readiness issues, and non-deployability. It was frustrating for Trish and others to hear this as prior research had already debunked these theories.

Where are We Now?

Although currently enlisted, active military transgender personnel is permitted to remain in their jobs, if a person is suffering any distress due to their dysphoria, they can be discharged. Today, you are unable to enter the military if you are transgender.

This is why we need fierce advocates like Trish.

Working Towards Change

The fight for LGBTQ+ rights is, unquestionably, a long and exhausting battle. During the Obama era, open transgender service was a realized dream. However, backward motion means the finish line still needs to crossed and it feels way too far away. Clearly, there is so much work to do.

Patricia (Trish) King, America's first Transgender Infantryman. Transgender Military Ban. The Brave Files Podcast. Creating Change.

Trish knows her role as an advocate is vital to the continued fight for social justice. For that reason, after retiring, she moved to Washington D.C. She now continues discussions with Congress members and those with the ability to make meaningful changes in the U.S. Government. This type of commitment to advocacy truly sends ripples through our communities. The call to action is clear: We all need to work together towards change.

Resources Mentioned In Trish’s Interview

Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell

Transgender FAQs

April 12th, 2019 – Ban on Transgender Service Members

Gratitude Journal: Shift Your Focus

More About Trish:

We encourage you to learn more about Trish through her website. She shares a wealth of information about equality and inclusion. Her book, Follow Me, does not have a release date but you can pre-order it!

Connect with Trish via Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and LinkedIn.

Trish King is America’s first transgender infantryman. After a 20 year military career, she now fiercely advocates for the rights of LGBTQ service members and all marginalized communities across our country. The Brave Files.

Giving is Good

Trish supports the Modern Military Association of America. This organization advocates for LGBTQ service members, the family members of LGBTQ service members, or family members of service members who are part of the LGBTQ community through education, advocacy, and support. Additionally, MMAA provides free legal services for the LGBTQ and HIV+ military and veteran communities.

"It's important, for so many reasons, for us to realize this dream and achieve the goal of open transgender service... It opens up the dream of a country where transgender Americans can live authentically and have opportunity. And that trickles all the way down to our children."

- Trish King

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Meet your Host, Heather Vickery

Heather Vickery is an award-winning business owner and global leader with over 20 years as an entrepreneur. She leverages her entrepreneurial skills and expertise to coach individuals towards greater personal and professional fulfillment by helping them leverage their fear into intentional bravery. Heather says “When we choose bravely, on purpose, we choose bigger, have bigger successes and it’s contagious” A celebrated public speaker, Heather inspires audiences and empowers attendees with the tools they need to live bold and successful lives through creating balance, time management, mindfulness, as well as countless systems, strategies, and boundaries. She’s the author of Gratitude Journal: Shift Your Focus and Grow Grateful: A Gratitude Journal for Kids and Families. Heather is also the host and executive producer of The Brave Files Podcast.

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